23.01.2011

Never risk losing yourself.


If the choice stands between losing your lover or yourself, - always lose your lover,
 not yourself!
A lover can be replaced by a new one, you have to live with yourself until you die, - no matter what.
Show yourself respect and stand your ground, don’t change yourself to fit better with a lover.
If you can’t be yourself, it’s not worth it!
Be proud of who YOU are!
If you manage to be in peace with and love yourself fully, you won't need anyone to prove their love for you to feel happiness. You will be perfectly fine on your own and a lover will just be a big bonus! Not someone to lean or hang on to exist and feel happiness.
Have you ever thought of that the moment you long for someone else and feel lonely, that you might lack love from yourself and that you don’t like your own company?
Do something about that before you search for someone else to make you happy. Search inwards and find the reasons why you stopped loving yourself and then fix it!
Make yourself happy.
You are worth loving!
If you don’t believe that you are worth loving, like truly and deeply, you will only end up with a lover that “mirrors” your feelings and treat you that way.
Only search for a lover when you love yourself and really feel that you are worth loving, because that’s when you get a lover that treat you with love.
And love you for who you are!
You are worth loving!
You are the most important person in your life!




Remember, - never risk losing yourself.




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